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What would happen if my girlfriend did this? My girlfriend and I are wanting to do bondage and we want to no what would happen if we tied a rope to her buitifull boobs tightly then tied the other end to a brach then push her off the branch is that dangerous | | Sounds pretty safe to me. | Open minded sexual opinions please? Askd question yesterday but it was deleted before I was able 2 read any answers, so I will refrase it again.
I have been with my bf for almost 2 years now, Before him I was some what normal when it came to my sex life. He is into kinky things, a guess some even would consider some of them to be just weird. He was open about being a cross dresser from th e start. Luvs to be my sissy maide, into bondage since we started dateing. All of this was completely new 2 me. But I have always considerd myself open minded and figured why not give it a shot. Out side of the kinks he is the man of my dreams. So happy I did not give up on him, some of the kinks I have actually learnd to luv, and enjoyd playing and doing with him. Now he has told me 2 of his deepest fantasys r to do oral on another sissy maide, and to get boobs by taking hormones. He even suggested trying out a session with another couple, like us. [female domme & male sissy sub] I said no 2 that one right away. Now wondering if maybe that was harshly said to soon.
I have askd him a few times if he is sure he is straight he say s yes, he dose not find men atractive, but he dose think maybe a femine male dressed like a sissy would be fun to play with. So I askd him, r u maybe bi ? He dose not know. He has admited some of these things freak him out 2,
but for the first time in his life he has found a woman he feels comfortable enough to open up to. Touching it is, but some of this I still don't know how to respond to. If I should feel threatend by other him possibly being bi, I know the boob thing just makes me uncomfortable. Told him that altering hi self is over a limit for me. I love him more then I ever knew I could luv a man. He asures me he wants me, none of the play would be the same or have meaning if it was not done with me. He wants me 2 dominate him and another sissy. Kind of hurts 2 know he wants something I can not offer, not sure how 2 take these new fantisys. All I know is this is danceing on my limit line, not sure if it is because of societys standards of what is right & wrong or just something else. Guess I am just confused on how to feel. Dose this mean he is bi , or bi curious ? Should I at all feel threatend by him wanting to try oral on a sissy? Alot of the bondage, and sissy stuff I am still getting use 2, then he shifts gears to these things. I did say umm baby moveing to fast for me, still getting use to these other two. I will say I am slow to change, some times drag my feet to it. But when I do try some new things I have liked them. HELP!!! open minded opinins plaese. | | i feel you may be pressured too much here, you are clearly not comfy with these things and i dont feel it is something you can get over if you dont like it, you WILL resent him for this. and as for the hormones... that is not the man you fell in love with. would he feel the same about you if you wanted to change something so drastically? explain to him all the reasons that you love him, and yes, you have tried somethings- and liked them but that you have boundaries that you dont want to cross. for both of your sakes. he should respect this. | What do you make of this? Man who aren't so attractive have problems finding women to go out with them, and so fantasise about regular things like boobs, sex etc.
I'm fairly attractive and have never had any trouble getting women and so never really HAD to fantasise about these things, so I started to fantasise about other things like oral, anal, bondage and the like.
Do you think that the more attractive a person is, the wierder their fetishes get? Or am I just making excuses for myself? | | nope not at all i think the nicest people or the lamest person can have a fantasy | Do you think hes into this, he confuses me? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | It sounds like you're open to only certain things, and he's worried about crossing your boundaries.
At the same time, he likes being blindfolded so he can sense the things you're doing to him in ways that eyesight might keep him from enjoying.
It may not be that your boobs look ugly to him. Its probably more like he enjoys being manipulated in ways that are pleasurable and happens to expect you to get creative.
Now if you set aside all judgment, and you focus on the pleasure aspects of sex; blindfolding him and doing dirty things to him while in a relationship is not wrong.
The "no" part about doing dirty things to him, by the way, was his way of relenting to what he thought were your boundaries. IN other words he'd rather be bored by sex than lose you at this point.
But, if you want him to be truly devoted to you, then finding ways to have pleasure together and discussing what your limits are and what his limits are, and defining your sexual relationship together is a great start to staying together. | Do you think my boyfriends into this, part of me says yes and no? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded before you show me" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | | That's super hot. Don't knock a little light bondage. If you don't want to tie his hands, make him put them behind his back and tell him he can't touch with his hands till you say so. Its HOT!!!!!! | Do you think hes into this, part of me says yes and the other says no? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded before you show me" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | | Based on your details, I think he simply enjoys being the surprise fact regarding you showing him your goodies. ;-) | Do you tihnk my boyfriends into this, part of me says yes and no? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded before you show me" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | | yeh go for it :) | Do you think my boyfriend is into this? part of me says yes, and part says no? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | | He likes to be dominated, or he may just want to try it. Experimenting is normal. If your comfortable give it a shot, if not, keep laughing it off. And by the way, of course he wanted you to do something when he was blindfolded earlier. If not, he just wanted to sit in the dark... | Do you think my boyfriend is into this? okay we've been together a year, when i first showed him my boobs (about a month into the relationship) he said "i feel like i should be blindfolded before you show me" at the time i jsut smiled cos i was nervous about showing him my boobs (i dont like them)
probly about 6 or 7 months in i ws wearing a scarf and he said "i want you to blindfold me, i want you to do dirty things to me while im blindfolded" and i said "really?" and he said "no" but he still wanted me to blindfold him, so i did, just didnt do dirty things to him cos he said not to..
then, about a month ago i was just wearing a scarf and had taken it off, he then grapped it and kept puttign it over his eyes and stuff... so im guessing he probly likes to be blinfolded right? i want to please him which is why im asking
and also one time we were readng through this list thing on facebook of '100 things to do with your partner' and he read out this one that said "kinky is bad blindfolds are good' and kind of laughed
so, i figured this weekend as he's been working out of town, ive got some nice lingerie and i was goin to change into it, but just blindfold him before i show them to him and let him feel the lingerie a bit before taking it off, then i can tell if he's into it or not, and it pleases him, then we can go on to have our sex...
guys and girls whats your opinions on what hes done? i thought he was but then saying he didnt want the dirty things done,and we both said we're not into bondage, so im not really sure xx | Kinky is as kinky does!
Kinky is all things to all men and all women!
The question is one only you can answer - if you're comfortable or not! | DO YOU THINK MY SEXUAL ANXIETIES OVER NUDITY, ETC. ARE REASONABLE? Hi, please tell me if you think these sources of anxiety and embarrassment are really problems or not. In either case breifly explain. Please be nice and respond to the NUMBERED questions, the letters are examples for your benefit.
1. I feel that I shouldn't watch girls doing things that are arousing, especially in public. For example, when...
a. I watch girls booty dancing or stripping on youtube.
b. I watch porn.
c. I watch girls fooling around half naked on their myspace or facebook.
d. I see erotic advertisements (girls with legs spread, panty shots, boobs, bellies, etc).
e. I see girls in public wearing revealing outfits.
f. I ask a lover to show off for me.
2. I feel I shouldn't get turned on by thinking of women in sexual terms. For example, when...
a. A girl calls herself a "hot piece of ***".
b. Someone makes a comment like..."she was the best pusssy I ever had".
c. A girl is called a *****, whorre, slut, or c.u.n.t. in a sexual context.
d. A girl is just something to desire sexually, for example: a girl you want for her body, strippers, pornstars, carshow girls, go-go-dancers, etc.
e. I call a girl dirty names in bed.
3. I feel I shouldn't get turned on by being sexually dominant over women. For example, when...
a. Men are clothed and the women are naked or undressed (at a lingerie party, in a movie, etc).
b. I look at porn pictures where the girl is really submissive, i.e, face down / asss up, legs spread wide in the air, legs folded behind her head, etc.
c. A pornstar is doing a bondage photo shoot with handcuffs, neck chains, or otherwise tied up.
d. A girl wants me to be rough and dominant with her in bed.
Thanks for answering! | 1. I can see how this could be a problem, but in situations like alone at home taking care of yourself, if you catch my meaning, it's perfectly acceptable to do what makes you feel good, just don't hurt other people in the process. This is another matter of simply who's ok with it.
2. Well yes objectification of somebody is generally a bad thing, but there can be times when that's appropriate if that's ok with the woman you're with. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and calling her names is sometimes alright, and sometimes doesn't make any sense. It's all about context and how comfortable you are with that, and if that's your bag on a personal level. No reason to feel shame about not getting turned on by that.
3. This is, again, another comfort thing. If you're not comfortable being rough with a girl then that's fine, it's just your thing. Some people like to be like that, some are into the bondage, but you personally are you. Stop being so concerned about what turns you on and off in the bedroom, if you're romantically compatible with somebody, great, if not, no big deal, just find somebody else. |
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