Fantasy Oral sex on someone I barely know,and I am married .I this normal ? I can't stop thinking of this man.? This man is about 5 years younger than I am and he has done work at my home.I see him in my area where I live about 5 or 6 times a week.I think constantly of him and have no desire for my sickly Husband he cannot perform sexually anymore.Please advise me .. |
| Ugh...I can't blame you but make sure he is into you first before you make a mistake. |
Going crazy over oral sex fantasy? I met this guy that i will never be with.
But I'm obsessed with him and I can't stop wanting to give him oral sex, I feel like i don't want to do it to anyone but him.
I think about many times though out the day and I get very aroused by the thought.
Has this ever happend to you?
What could this mean? |
| Why do you say you will never be with him. Anything is possible. Good luck |
Oral sex fantasy Obsession please help!!!? Met this guy that i will never be with, he is getting Married
But I'm obsessed with him and I can't stop wanting to give him Oral sex, I feel like i don't want to do it to anyone but him.
I think about many times though out the day and I get very aroused by the thought.
Has this ever happend to you?
What could this mean? |
| It just means you're a normal, healthy girl with a sexual appetite and a fantasy that you may or may not act upon. Nothing more, nothing less. You'll get over it, one way or another. Trust. ';-) |
I have a bi fantasy but I did not like the bi s*ex when I tried it. It did nothing for me. Who am I? I have an oral bi fantasy. When I finally tried it, it did nothing for me sexually. However, I still have the oral bi fantasy. What does this mean? The reason I ask is that I am no longer curious and will never do it again yet in fantasy i still love to give bj's. Can I be labeled at all? |
| Lots of people have fantasies they would never act out. Some are much worse than yours, such as people that fantasize about getting raped. Just because they fantasize about it doesn't mean they really want it - and in your case, just because you fantasize about giving BJs doesn't mean you're really into men, especially since you didn't enjoy it. Did you enjoy being with a man at all? If you didn't, and if you're interested in females, then I would say you're straight, just with a fantasy (emphasis on the word "fantasy") about giving blowjobs. |
Is this a weird, achievable, or an ok fantasy? I have a fantasy of doing oral sex on a girl with smokeless tobacco (dip, snuff, chew, etc...) in my mouth and for her to do it to me as well. Is this weird, bad, disgusting, achievable, ok fantasy and would anyone do that? |
| it is a bit wierd and a bit silly. the carcinogens in tobacco will cause damage down there just as easily aas lungs throat and mouth. |
Are you bisexual if you would like only to receive oral from a girl? I don't think is gross to kiss a girl or touch or kiss her down there, but I'm only attracted by the idea to receive oral from a girl.
Am I bisexual? Is this fantasy common among straight girls? |
Well I'm bisexual and i like to give as well as receive. I suppose your thinking would change if you found someone and had feelings for them-you would want to give them pleasure. But it's normal because you would be on the receiving end of pleasure, so yeah. Anyways, there's never any rush to put a label on your sexuality. You sound very down to earth so you should be ok and not freak out over the idea that you might be bi.
:D |
Is it legal to post a Craigs List ad about a sexual fantasy that involves no nudity or sex? I have a fantasy I would like to act out that involves no sex, nudity, or oral sex (just roleplay). I want to post an ad on Craigs list for a moderately attractive to do it for $200. If I post an account in the adult section is this legal? |
| it's not illegal. lol mostly the only things that are illegal on the internet involve copyright, chold porn (you can talk about it in your fantasy but as long as you don't have pics it's fine), stealing other people's work, posting it without their permission, you know. it's called freedom of speech. you can SAY whatever you want, just as long as it's not a threat that you plan on acting on because they can arrest you for intent. |
Is this weird, taboo, possible, achievable, a good idea or an ok fantasy? And why? Is this a weird, achievable, or an ok fantasy?
I have a fantasy of doing oral sex on a girl with smokeless tobacco (dip, snuff, chew, etc...) in my mouth and for her to do it to me as well. Is this weird, bad, disgusting, achievable, ok fantasy and would anyone do that? Under a taboo fantasy. Please leave out the, you should quit or you will die or that kind of stuff unless it does damage specifically to the male and female genitals. Thank you. |
Weird, not really - it's not usual though.
Taboo - not at all.
Possible - definitely.
Achievable - yup.
A good idea - well, that's your opinion.
An ok fantasy - definitely
If done repeatedly it would damage the genitals of course but as long as there are two consenting adults I see absolutely no reason why you shouldn't go ahead |
Should I tell my wife that I have a fantasy in which I cross dress and give men oral? I have been married for a while now and I am very happy. Before I married my wife I told her that I have had oral sexy with a man in the past and that had cross-dressed. I fantasize about this from time to time while I M.B not every time, but sometimes.I dont M.B. much either we have a great sex life and love each other but when she finds out that I M.B. from time to time she wants to know what I think about, and I lie to her about it and I don't like it. but I don't think she can handle it. So should I leave it alone or tell her and hope that she will still love me. |
Don't be an idiot.
What have you to benefit from hurting your wife? Nothing. And "YES", you will be hurting her by telling her about your sexual fantasies. It will confuse her and she will question if it is her fault.
Believe me. Every marriage has its own little secrets. It is okay to have a few secrets when you are trying to protect the ones you love.
Before you bring anything like this up to your wife, you must be sure about how she feels about some limited cross-dressing. Perhaps you can explain that it is a sexual fetish where your brain releases dopamines and products sensations of well-being and pleasure. Its like a cat with catnip.
I would recommend that you use some men's clothes that are soft and feel like lingerie. They make men's nylon pajamas that are made of the same material as lingerie. They also make silky boxers for men, some are even satin. Try that out before you put your marriage in jeopardy. |
Is it a sin to think about another sex fantasy while having sex with your husband? I can't be thinking about what's for dinner and still enjoy love making. Sometimes my fasts are about two woman or about oral sex with another man. Is this sinful? I feel like it is. |
| Yes it is. If you wish to stay married, you need to concentrate more on your husband, and stop fantasizing about other men, and other situations! |